Tuesday, 31 May 2016

 EXIN Shagoon We Do Marriages The Right Way

This unpredictability is one of the main reasons the wedding planning field is so attractive for many. If you are the kind of person that enjoys a dynamic and unpredictable (but exciting!) working environment, becoming a wedding planner might be the perfect career for you.

So let’s get right down to it! The following is our summary of the primary duties and skills that EXIN Shagoon are responsible for Engagement.

  •        Initial Consultation


The initial consultation between the planner and the client serves to set the groundwork as to what the client is expecting from the planner and what the client is planning to do. The client may be the bride, the groom, the mother or father of the bride, the mother or father of the groom or any combination of these people.
Day of coordination involves taking care of all the logistical details of the wedding on the day of the wedding itself.

  •          Day of Coordinator


Most brides have looked forward to their wedding day since they were little girls, and many refuse to let anyone else plan the details of their wedding other than themselves! Having said that, these brides also recognize that their wedding day should be about enjoyment and bliss.
·         Pre-Wedding

As a Day of Coordinator, your first responsibility will be to look over the contracts for each vendor the client has chosen to hire. You will then will contact the vendors approximately one week prior to the wedding and introduce yourself and ensure you have accurate day of contact information for each of them.
     Don’t just settle for your vendors’ landline phone numbers. Be sure to obtain their cell numbers too, in case of an emergency.
  •          Wedding Day
                             

On the day of the wedding, the wedding planner should arrive at the venue early enough to supervise all vendor set-up and answer any questions that may arise. Planners should ensure that the bride, groom, DJ/band and photographer are all informed in advance of each event (grand entrance, first dance, cake cutting, garter toss, etc.).

 The wedding planner should be the liaison between all the vendors and the bride/groom on the day of the wedding. This will enable the bride/groom to enjoy the day with their friends and family instead of having to chase after vendors.

  •          Wrapping up

And don’t think that your job is done after the guests and newlywed couples have exited the reception. Even after everyone clears out, planners should make sure all of the client’s personal property and wedding gifts are properly packed and secured in a vehicle, hotel room or storage room. Plan ahead and have your client recruit volunteers if there are a lot of items to be packed or stored.
  •          Full Service Planner
         
                               

Of course, not all brides envision their wedding as Disney fairy tales, or perhaps they have but are too busy with their careers and just can’t be hassled with the details of planning their perfect wedding, so they’ll ask you to take care of them each step of the way.
·         Budget

In some way or another, the budget will affect every decision of the wedding. Very early in the planning stages, the wedding planner should initiate a detailed discussion with the client as to their budget for the wedding. Some clients will handle the budget themselves and some clients will want or need your assistance. Before considering any venues or making appointments with any vendors you must be certain that everyone agrees on the total budget for the wedding.
·         Venues

Once the budget is agreed upon, it is time to begin researching venues. Comparing venues can be one of the most complicated jobs a wedding planner has to do, but it is also where they can be provide the most value to their client. Each venue you are considering will probably include different rental items, price their food and beverage differently and may figure tax, tip and service charges at different rates.

 The sooner you rule out the wrong wedding venues, the quicker you’ll find the right one. Venues are often booked over a year in advance so don’t delay for too long! 
  •        Vendors Selection
                                   

Once a venue and date is selected and confirmed with a deposit, it is time to begin selecting vendors. Just as is the case with venues, many of the best wedding vendors (photographers, videographers, florists, etc.) can book a year or more in advance. To ensure the best selection of vendors for your client you want to quickly begin booking appointments for vendors within your client’s budget and style.

  •          Turning Magic into Reality


After the venue and vendors are booked and secured, your client will need your help with everything else that makes a wedding the magical day they always envisioned.
Your client may want your assistance with the selection of the bride and bridal parties attire. This may include attending appointments at the bridal salon or simply giving your opinion on photos sent to you by email. It is a good idea to attend at least one appointment with the florist, since it will typically be up to you to distribute the corsages, boutonnieres, and bouquets to the bridal party and you will want to be familiar with the ceremony and reception décor as well.

Since every wedding will be entirely unique, the answer to the question, “What does a wedding planner do?” will never be entirely complete. But nevertheless, take away this message: your primary duty as a wedding planner is to satisfy the concerns that the bride had when she decided to look for a wedding planner. These concerns will always change, and that is OK. As long as you’re there to meet them, you’ve fulfilled your duty.

                                                       
Go out there and remember to enjoy it! You’re playing a key role in making someone’s dreams come to reality.


Wednesday, 13 April 2016

Dowry – The Perennial Curse In Indian Marriages

In India, dowry refers to the durable goods, cash, and real or movable property that the bride's family gives to the bridegroom, his parents, or his relatives as a condition of the marriage. It is one of the worst evils of Indian marriages. It is a custom that is prevalent in all the sections of our society in one form or the other. At the beginning it was voluntary, but later on the social pressure was such that very few could escape from it. EXIN Shagoon stands up against this evil practice and encourages to abolish it from its root.




The dowry system is puts great financial burden on the bride's family. It leads to crime against women, ranging from emotional abuse, injury to even deaths. The payment of dowry has been prohibited under specific Indian laws including, the Dowry Prohibition Act, 1961 and subsequently by Sections 304B and 498A of the Indian Penal Code (IPC).
The first all-India legislative enactment relating to dowry to be put on the statute book was the The Dowry Prohibition Act, 1961 and this legislation came into force from July 1, 1961. Although providing dowry is illegal, it is still common in many parts of India for a husband to seek a dowry from the wife's family and in some cases, it results in the form of extortion and violence against the wife. 



To further strengthen the anti-dowry law and to stop offences of cruelty by the husband or his relatives against the wife, new provisions were added to the Indian criminal law — section 498A to IPC and section 198A to the Criminal Procedure Code in 1983. In 2005, the, Protection of Women from Domestic Violence Act was passed, which added an additional layer of protection from dowry harassment.




Although the essence of origin of dowry is subjected to debate, but the condition it has come down to in today’s time, it is truly inhuman in nature. After all, a marriage is the union of two individuals, it is not a barter system.
In India, dowry refers to the durable goods, cash, and real or movable property that the bride's family gives to the bridegroom, his parents, or his relatives as a condition of the marriage. One of the worst evils of Indian marriages is the dowry system. It is a custom that is prevalent in all the sections of our society in one form or the other. At the beginning it was voluntary, but later on the social pressure was such that very few could escape from it. EXIN Shagoon stands up against this evil practice and encourages to abolish it from its root.
The dowry system is thought to put great financial burden on the bride's family. It leads to crime against women, ranging from emotional abuse, injury to even deaths. The payment of dowry has been prohibited under specific Indian laws including, the Dowry Prohibition Act, 1961 and subsequently by Sections 304B and 498A of the Indian Penal Code (IPC).

The first all-India legislative enactment relating to dowry to be put on the statute book was the The Dowry Prohibition Act, 1961 and this legislation came into force from July 1, 1961. It marked the beginning of a new legal framework of dowry harassment laws effectively prohibiting the demanding, giving and taking of dowry. Although providing dowry is illegal, it is still common in many parts of India for a husband to seek a dowry from the wife's family and in some cases, this results in a form of extortion and violence against the wife. To further strengthen the anti-dowry law and to stop offences of cruelty by the husband or his relatives against the wife, new provisions were added to the Indian criminal law - section 498A to IPC and section 198A to the Criminal Procedure Code  in 1983. In 2005, the, Protection of Women from Domestic Violence Act was passed, which added an additional layer of protection from dowry harassment.

Tuesday, 29 March 2016

Regulating matrimonial websites: EXIN Shagoon presents the pros and cons of online matrimonial websites


Regulating matrimonial websites are essential as many among them results into fraud cases. Recently an amendment from the Bombay High Court stated Maharashtra to keep an eye on the website operating within the state.




The effectiveness of matrimonial websites are that there you can find out the best member for your family. Despite of that there are arrangements of other essential services like pundits, flowers, cakes, rings and wedding planners to make your big day the best.
On the other hand, there are negative sides. You do not know the people you are communicating with. You are also unaware of their whereabouts, you only trust them on the information provided online, may be not true.


At EXIN Shagoon we always present details of people those who have provided us their actual photo identity cards and other personal details for further contact. All the details with us go through a stringent checking system with the best secrets kept with us.
“We don’t know how the state government can control them, but the state must control the matrimonial websites,” said the division bench of Justice Abhay Oka and Justice Prakash Naik, while hearing a public interest litigation filed by advocate Priscila Samuel following the website burglary through matrimonial websites.


EXIN Shagoon had made an internal study in this context and found out that Bengaluru occupies the highest place in cyber crime and in deceptive matrimonial cases. According to experts, ‘Topping the charts are online matrimonial cheating cases culminating in girls losing lakhs of rupees to scamsters who entice them with offers of marriage. Such incidents form over 40 per cent of the cases reported in cyber police stations.’


Tuesday, 22 March 2016

Diversity - 8 Kinds Of Marriage In Hinduism


Hindu marriage joins two individuals for life, so that they can pursue dharma (duty), artha (possessions), kama (physical desires) and moksha (ultimate spiritual release) together. It is a union of two individuals and is recognized by law. In Hinduism, marriage also joins two families together. There is more diversity in Hinduism when it comes to marriage than we know of. EXIN Shagoon brings for you the eight types of marriage that has been described in ancient Hindu texts. Not all had religious sanction. The first four were considered proper.

1.      Rite of Brahmana — The Brahma marriage is the marriage of one's daughter, after decking her with costly garments and with presents of jewels, to a man of good conduct learned in the Vedas, and invited by oneself.
2.      Rite of the Daiva— The Daiva rite is the marriage of one's daughter, decked with ornaments to a priest who duly officiates at a religious ceremony, during the course of its performance.
3.      Rite of the Arsha — Arsha marriage is when the father gives away his daughter, after receiving from the bridegroom a cow and a bull or two pairs of either as Bride price
4.      Rite of the Prajapati — Prajapati is when a girl's father gives her in marriage to the bridegroom, treating him with respect, and addresses them: 'May both of you perform together your duties'.

5.      Rite of the Gandharva — The voluntary union of a maiden and her lover which springs from sexual desire is called Gandharva marriage.
6.      Rite of the Asuras — Asura marriage is when the bridegroom receives a maiden, after having given of his own free will as much wealth as he can afford, to the bride and her kinsmen.
7.      Rite of the Rakshasa — Rakshasa marriage is the marriage of a maiden involving her forcible abduction from her home after her kinsmen have been slain or wounded.
8.      Rite of the Pisaka — When a man by stealth seduces a girl who is sleeping, intoxicated, or mentally challenged, it is called Paisaka marriage. This is condemned in the Manusmriti as a base and sinful act

Rakshasa and Gandharva marriage was regarded acceptable to Kshatriyas as was Asura marriage for Vaishyas and Shudras.